Unravel who you think you are supposed to be

Lean back into trust, into inner trust. No longer seeking sources outside of yourself for validation and truth — but looking inward, trusting your own inner compass.

Allow the loose threads of who you have always been and who you think you are supposed to be, to unravel. Settling into your heartspace, feeling your heart beat and the breath moving in and out of your lungs. It’s not about fixing everything, always trying to figure it out. Give yourself a moment to breathe and pause. What is it that your soul is revealing to you?

Does any of this feel familiar…

Trying to live based on everyone else's rules + expectations

I was desperately trying to tell myself I still believed what I was brought up to believe by staying inside the lines, not rocking the boat, and making all my decisions to live the life of the “good girl” I had always tried to be. But after getting a divorce, and grieving deeply the loss of that good girl identity, I realized I didn’t know who I was outside of following everyone else’s rules. From my parents, to the bible, and everything else that was outside of myself.
Removing the blinders + making your own aligned decisions

I decided I could trust myself, that I knew so much more than I ever thought, because no one else was me. I was my own best advocate and it was time to step into some serious self responsibility. Raised that divorce was a sin, that moving in with someone before you were married was a sin, that my heart was deceitful above all things and desperately wicked. I was not taught to turn inward, to look inside myself and trust my inner knowing, I didn’t even know I had an inner knowing. But as I began to make decisions for myself, without asking the permission from my parents, my partner, my coach, my therapist, I noticed that I actually knew what I needed. I decided to get a divorce. I decided to move in with my partner before we got married. I decided that I could leave the constructs of a belief system that no longer felt aligned for me and open to exploring a relationship with the Great Mother, the Universe, with my own humanity.
Living with your eyes wide open

Always hearing, you should settle down. You can’t make spontaneous decisions like that. You can’t move across the country, twice, because you find new opportunities — you have to be reliable. You can’t get a divorce because you know it is the best thing for you, there has to be a biblical reason, you can’t just leave, staying is always the goal. Don’t leave your corporate job and become a life coach — what if you never make enough money? You need to buy a house, have kids, settle down — your dog is not your kid, you can’t rent forever, you can’t possibly keep moving around — you’ve lived in 8 different places over the last 5 years! Yeah well guess what? Watch me!

take a moment and feel these truths rise up within you…

You feel confident and brazenly live your life the way that feels true for you, even when it looks differently then how you thought it would.

You know who you are and feel safe within yourself to live fully alive and not just in survival mode.

You learn what it feels like to truly trust yourself, allowing your inner knowing to become your guiding compass instead of only trusting and believing everyone and everything else outside of yourself.

client love

Destini

Katherine, your energy is so soothing, comforting and relatable. I like to deem myself a skeptic in all things, a hard egg to crack, and yet every other Tuesday I would be eager, eyes wide open ready to tell you all about my "AHA" moments during my week. Your questions and wording is so thought provoking, giving me endless thoughts to explore as I would wait for our next session. Learning to own my value has been LIFE changing.
Cayla

I highly recommend Energy Coaching with Katherine, her calming and intentional presence invites you as the client to ground in and fully be. Katherine isn't just guiding you through energy space, she is walking the journey alongside you with a steady and easeful presence. Katherine's approach to Energy Coaching is so affirming and supportive, I felt held the entire time. Her grounding presence is a calm reminder that we are not alone and yet we also have all of the tools we need within. Katherine seamlessly weaves Human Design into her Energy Coaching sessions in a way that is affirming and fascinating to witness.
caylamerrillcoaching.com
Meagan

My biggest takeaway from working with Katherine was the importance of being your own safe space. I really explored what that meant over the months we spent together and it felt almost like a muscle, the more I 'worked it out' the stronger and more easeful and more normal it felt. I think we underestimate how much our lives change when we feel safe to be / say / do / think anything without judgement. It's beautiful.
meaganvigil.com

Unravel who you think you are supposed to be

through this 6 month journey as you wake up to your own inner knowing

— your soulful investment —

paid in full — $2,880

{or 6 monthly payments of $490}

I AM SO READY FOR THIS 💛

Here’s what’s included:

1:1 Coaching Calls

In our 12 one-on-one coaching calls together you will begin to unravel from the conditioning and old programming that is keeping you stuck in the loop of living a life of supposed to’s. As your partner and guide on this exploration journey I will weave in life and energy coaching through the lens of your Human Design as you, yes you, unlock the deeper layers of who you truly are.

Monthly Meditations

Each month you will receive a recorded meditation to support you in deepening into your journey. These recordings will be a tool that you can reference back to any time you feel you need a little extra love and support. A moment to pause. Space to breathe. To remember what you already know and to continue to unearth the inner truth that is beneath the surface within you.

I WANT TO KNOW MORE 🙋🏼‍♀️

A coaching relationship may be just what your soul needs if…

You are ready to remove the blinders. No longer letting people and rules and expectations outside of you dictate how you live and what you know to be true.
You want someone who get’s it, who doesn’t judge you or expect you to be anyone except who you truly are, to walk with you and support you as you make sovereign changes in your life.
You feel an internal struggle between who you “should” be and who you are becoming and feel alone in it all.

However coaching may not be the best next step for you if…

You are looking for someone outside of yourself to tell you who you are, what to do, and how to live your life.
You are so worried about what other people think that to even begin to explore how to make decisions without other people’s permission feels impossible to your system.
You feel like you have no time, no capacity, nothing left to give to yourself or to anyone else. Take a moment and breathe…possibly moving through Unravel will serve you at a later time, there is no need to rush yourself beloved.

UNRAVEL

who you think you are supposed to be and wake up to your own inner knowing

during your 6 month journey you will receive:

12 bi-weekly 1:1 coaching calls
Monthly recorded meditations

paid in full — $2,880

{or 6 monthly payments of $490}

I AM SO IN 💫

your guiding lights

You Are Your Own Safe Haven

Maybe you feel like you don’t know how to make a decision for yourself without asking someone else’s permission first. *But oh the freedom of letting go of the need you have to do everything right according to everyone else.*
Maybe you are tired of always staying between the lines, playing it small and constantly trying to fit in. *Walking brazenly through life your way feels out of reach and yet, there is this spark within you, this voice whispering, maybe, just maybe, it’s possible.*
Maybe you so desperately want to feel like you belong somewhere, anywhere, but around every corner you’re met with “the right way” to do this or be that and you’re just so exhausted at the never ending cycle. *Could it ever be possible to let go of the external right way and live by your internal aligned and nuanced way?*
*Open to the possibilities within you and know who you truly are.*

Believe in Your Unique Way

Maybe you’re living by everyone else’s rules and expectations wondering, *is this really what I want?*
Maybe you’re afraid to rock the boat too much, I mean it can be kinda fun to rock it a little bit here and there, but you can feel this rising desire inside of you to rock it all so hard that the boat capsizes.
Maybe you long for a space to reconcile the belief system that used to be your life line, the belief system you are no longer aligned with but leaves you feeling empty and lost in a way.
*You have this inner knowing within you, it has its own frequency and vibration. Know it, trust it, believe it. You’ve got this.*

Your Shadow Landscape Keeps You Safe and Expansive

Maybe you’ve been ignoring your fears and uncertainties, pretending like they don’t even exist. Pushing them down deeper and deeper inside of you. *But what if you let them rise to the surface. What if you voiced them? Honored them?*
Maybe all those stories of comparison and jealousy, feeling like you could never be enough, are on replay inside your mind — but no one would have any idea with that smile you keep perfectly plastered on your face. Could you for a moment give yourself the permission to simply be with the feelings and stories swirling inside your mind? Maybe they’re not as scary and foreboding as you’ve allowed yourself to believe.
Maybe you’re afraid that if you really look at your fears, see your uncertainties, and pay attention to the stories inside of you, you just might explode. *But what if in really looking at them you unlock the freedom to finally be who you really are as a whole, real, fully alive human being?*
*Release the pressure valve that says you always have to have your shit together. It’s a lie.*

What Feels True IS Your Truth

Maybe one of your biggest fears is that you actually know what you want. And what you want is the opposite of what you thought you would ever want or what you were raised to want.
Maybe you’re afraid to trust again, to believe again, because it’s burned you in the past. Those you trusted made you feel unwanted, or dirty or like you do not belong. What you believed in left you out in the cold wondering if you would ever find your way again.
Maybe you were never taught or encouraged to look inside of yourself for your truth but outside of yourself for permission and that final, “okay” from someone else.
*You know what is true underneath the surface of your fear. Listen to your inner knowing and forge your own path.*

Be Curious and Open to Your Inner Exploration

Maybe the this or that, the right or wrong, the thinking in clearly opposing and contrasting ways feels easier and simpler. *But what if life isn’t about easier? What if truly living is about presence and curiosity and openness and changing your mind?*
Maybe you’re afraid to say the thing inside you, because what if it’s wrong, what if you’re wrong, what if you’re misunderstood, what if it changes everything? *Okay well let’s go there. Tell me, what if it does?*
Maybe this middle ground feels too messy and uncertain. *And maybe there is beauty found in the messy middle.*
Maybe you’re wondering how you will know if you’re right if you allow for nuance. *What if you let go of needing to be right and instead got curious about what is underneath this need to always be right?*
*Allow the waves of change to meet you right where you are in this moment. This is your evolution.*

You Are Rising Into Your Revolution

What if what you grew up believing doesn’t feel true anymore?
What if asking permission is easier than taking self-responsibility for your own decision making?
What if you’re afraid to grow, to rise, to change because it feels “safer” and more familiar to stay the same, even though you’re so tired of being the same?
What if no one recognizes you when you emerge out of hiding? When you share your love for oracle cards and crystals, or when you cuss and speak your mind, or when you’re “unpredictable and unreliable”, aka — when you make choices for yourself instead of always caring for everyone else first?
*You are magnificence. Full stop. See it. Own it. Be you, your way.*

client love

Dylan

I've always been drawn into personality profiles and introspection in general; I had been feeling unseen by the Enneagram and a little lost in astrology (though I really love it), and was feeling like I was working against my own flow a lot of the time. I could feel that trying to force myself to do things the ways others do them wasn't working, but I felt scared and helpless with how to do it a different way. I listened to Katherine's interview/discussion with Meagan Vigil on the "Create Your Life" podcast and loved hearing these women talk about something that helped them see/accept themselves more clearly, while also providing lots of space for deeper discovery. I liked that Katherine was gentle about it, providing grace that it's not going to resonate with all people, and that's okay.
bydylanm.com
Jenell

Katherine has such an amazing way of taking my (what feels like) chaotic and long thought processes and combining them together into clear and concise words. This has helped me a lot because when I feel like there's so much going on in my mind, she helps make it seem smaller and more clear. There's nothing like having someone not only sincerely listen to what I'm saying, but ask me questions and help me to process whatever it is I'm going through or trying to figure out. I do indeed feel SO much less alone. If you're looking to get to know yourself better, to be heard and to be seen in a calm, safe, and welcoming environment: Katherine is your girl. She is so great at asking questions that will help you dig deeper, process emotions, and gain clarity about yourself/circumstances/business, etc.
spruceandlinen.com
Meghan

After life coaching sessions with Katherine in 2020, I have dived even deeper into the spiritual world. Human Design, meditation, tarot cards, and connecting more deeply with the energies around us have become a part of my path. When Katherine began offering Energy Coaching, I jumped at the opportunity. I was most surprised at how easily Katherine and I accessed the energetic field, and how easily I was able to move past blocks and stories that I had been working to let go of for years. I felt so complete after our final session. I felt deeply connected to myself. I felt grounded, lighter, safer, and more equipped to move quickly though any stories or blocks that may arise in the future. My biggest takeaway was that I can deeply trust myself. I can let go of the stories that no longer serve me with ease.
thefarewellco.com