Hello love, welcome to my online home…let’s get to know each other a little bit.

I am so glad that you are here. As you consider if you may want to partner together and walk through life together for a time, I want to share a little bit about me, my lived experiences, why I do what I do and why I hold space the way I do.

Who am I?

I am a Phoenix. I have risen from the ashes more times than I can count. Through leaving the evangelical church and finding my own spiritual path, death and grief and loss, separation and divorce, friendship and marriage, moving across the country and coming back home, partnership and singlehood, business ownership and continued refinement.

I have left many a good thing, or what used to be good, because I learned that it was no longer good for me.

I’ve stayed, longer than I should have sometimes, because I love big…and love should be enough right?

I’ve been judged and misunderstood, taken advantage of and unappreciated.

I’ve lost and I’ve grown. I’ve let go and I’ve held on.

I’ve burned it all to the ground and I’ve risen from the very ashes I created.

I am who I am today because of every experience I have lived through. And I will become who I will be every day because of all I will continue to live through.

I believe this for myself. And I believe it for you.

Why the space I hold may be just what you need

I have no expectations as to who you should be.

What should stay the same.

What should change.

I am a relationship builder and I believe in the long game.

I will not rush your process of unlearning what was never yours, so you can actually learn what you truly want.

And I won’t let you hide in the shadows when you commit to this work.

The vision I hold for you is that you will become fully you — who that is is entirely up to you.

Because this is your life and it’s time you actually started living it.

The work I do as a Space Holder

I used to think I was a business coach, because most of my clients have businesses and I love business owners. But the truth is, I’m a space holder. I work with women who are outgrowing, or have already outgrown, their current reality, the life they have been living, the business they have been creating…and need somewhere to figure shit out in the messy middle.

Because often what happens is that we start living our lives for other people from a very young age. And somewhere along the way, we wake up to the fact that the life we’ve built, isn’t actually oours at all, but a compilation of everyone else’s wants and desires.

This leaves us wondering, what do I want, what do I need — and is it even possible for me to have it?

The short answer is yes — and, as you will learn if you choose to work with me, I am the queen of nuance.

The long answer is yes, and…

There are no two stories, or lives, that are alike.

What brings you life will drain someone else. What lights you up will drive someone else absolutely nuts.

What all my clients seem to have in common.

Things haven’t gone the way they expected. For so many different reasons, they find themselves at a pivotal moment.

Maybe it’s been building slowly. Or maybe it’s come crashing down in a tidal wave of events.

But they are no longer who they were — and they’re not entirely sure how to become who they are becoming.

If this journey has been brought on by deep loss, I am so so sorry. I honor your heartbreak, the depth of your grief, and my hope for you is that you let yourself fully feel the wide range of emotions that come on the grief journey. For it is one that never ends, though it will evolve.

Everyone in your life will not understand the journey you are on. It will be foreign to many. It may feel isolating — making you wonder if you are losing your mind. You’re not, you’re simply shedding and refining what is not meant to come with you into this new iteration of you.

Often this process doesn’t make sense — and so trying to explain it to those who love you, feels like you’re spinning in circles.

I get it.

Know that you do not have to explain yourself, or make sense, or have all (or any of) the answers in our session(s) together.

I am here to hold space for you through it all.

I am here for you. Not everyone else. Just you.

xo,

Katherine